venus in 12th house synastry forum

. You say hes your EX-best friend. This has been a dormant thread for some time but I couldn't help but post in my 2-bits on a relationship with 12th Venus. Mars, however, reveals how you express your sex drive and how you go about getting what you want. Hi Aida, very interesting what you say.. Well you know, Neptune rules the 12th house, which is idealization, so in a sense these people will appear to be our ideal! But Tabitha seems to attract controlling lovers (maybe she has Pluto in her 7th House). In the synastry between my husband and myself, my Mars and Saturn lands in his 12th house. There is a guy with his scorpio stellium (venus, moon, and pluto) in my 12th house, with his venus/pluto conjunct my Asc/pluto. so i point it out, and im more aware. We work well together and it is always professional. Definitely feels fated/destined/telepathic/psychic. He s got a new girl in his life and I wish him well! this was all chinese for him but for me it was the confirmation Of I had felled. ive seen it many times in others too. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. We re still connected somehow bit in a weird way :(. We easily know what the other needs without words. It is because mars is a harsher planet? It turned into something of a horror show, and although I made the decision to cut all ties, every time I would weaken and go back I would get BLUDGEONED emotionally and psychically. And also what are your thoughts on Venus in the 12th composite chart vs the synastry chart? Pisces is the sign without boundaries. has Sun conjunct Saturn, they natrually have a hard time showing their affections and are very fatherly, 12th house gives you a very spiritual feeling almost like they could be your soulmate, it can be pretty intense ad consuming so if your not very spiritual/aware of yourself or in a good place in life, you might have a hard time feeling this energy or wanting to accept it, its different, its not so much lustful, its just friggin beautiful, you wanna make love to that person and cuddle them, i also have an empty 12th housei could love this energy so much possibly because aqua venuses that land there most of time trine my moon.i feel like if someones planets fall in 12th AND also aspect sun/moon/asc, youll be able to accept and recieve this awesome energy more. iRecently i have met a guy in my office whose north node conjuct my 12th house where is my moon and mars. His Moon squares my NN. Topic: Venus in 12th house Synastry: KarkaQueen Knowflake . It just went down a long and winding road until it got out of control. And ever since we started communicating I have that strange feeling of telepathic connection between us.Is it possible that this 12th house influence works so strong with people who never met in person?We don't know each other in RL and I don't know how that is going to work out when we meet.My Pluto square his Sun/Mars kazimi conjunction, within 0 degrees. We face the same situation when someone touch our 12th house. The 12th house also has deep connections with dreaming, rest, and introspection. I wish I could see your charts so I could have a better picture of this. We are from different countries. Yes I do think that it's a possibility with his Neptune in your 12th its a very intuitive and psychic connection. However, I have a group of planets that fall my husbands twelfth house and hes had no complaint with it. In romantic and marital relationships, the purely material interest of the partners often comes to the fore. No way, jose. Yes, assumptions is one thing that takes place a lot in this house. Either come correct or go away. What activity do you have going on between your S.O. I think we are a bit obsessive about each other although he seemed to be feeling it the worst. after 2/3 months later i came to know that he has girlfriend somewhere in another country. And it is an easy relationship. where is your Neptune? If it's a night chart, Venus is more powerful and the strongest benefic in the chart. Not without good reason, psychic and spiritual connections are not all that common, but they show us what exists beyond this physical world. Strangely enough, I found that I had this very weird feeling of being ill for a couple days and almost felt like I might pass out, but it wasn't like it really felt like I was ill (difficult to explain.) If the person is a good person they can point out our weaknesses and bring them to light so we can move forward with the knowledge that they have to help us be more aware of our unconscious behaviors. I leave, but I always come back after a while. he is not interested, so I need to move onThe way I found of doing it is trying to understand why this happen. Hi, Name Again. I've noticed a few times I have had this placement with somone I care very deeply about, but for some reason the feelings are never mutual. My 12th house Saturn conjunct his NN and His Chiron and Saturn conjunct my NN. He is much older than me, far better positioned, with flaws, yet a hero to me. I actually feel I treated him wrong although he was a person whos been there for me when I was going through the hard time. ------------------Air woman. Ya, I think we both feel a very strange draw to the other. Same here. Her Venus is in my 12th house. lol He also has his Mercury conjuncting my Sun in the 8th house and his Venus conjuncts my Venus as well as his Mars conjuncts my Mars. Plus his venus is in cancer and my north node and asc are in cancer. The 12th house rules things. Hi, 12th house placements are highly impressionable, they stay with you long after because it's a highly idealized house, be careful you can easily fool yourself. Posts: 354From: united statesRegistered: May 2009, Copyright 2000-2014 you just have to separate your spirit from them somehow, as that seems to be the deepest connection between you and them. Yes i do believe it possible to work even if you have not physically met as crazy as that sounds, my experience with this house has shown it to be a very magical house, that has roots in the past. He acts like hes in love with me, he acts like he cares deeply for me, hes there for me and has even held me while I cried. Its been a year since we last saw each other and 5 months since we last spoke. I still dream about them and I wonder if I bother them in their dreams toolol, I have had a short lived adventure with a man back in 2013. I have a venus in capricornso yes it is hard for me to let my feelings out..I don't expect to say I love youI just assume you should know it by my actions but for me on the other hand, I would need some reassurance from my partner. does the planet that falls in your 12th aspect anything else in your chart? During the night I could feel his eyes, some times resting on me. even when its painful between us this pull makes me want to continue with him so I did not want him to feel my pain yet he could and tried to finish things cos of itbut then we couldnt seem to leave them for more than 3 days anyway, Yep not sure what to call it a relationship, love,, obsession, infatuation, One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. Thats an aspect of a battle between the Mars person & the 12th house person. Its unbelievably painful. Hi, Heather. I can sense when he needs something even when he isn't next to me. I dont know if he really loves me but Ive never felt this connected with someone before. The 12th House & Synastry When you have a 12th house connection in synastry and your natal planets fall in their 12th house, this can make you have difficulties expressing whatever that planet governs in the relationship (or vice versa if it's their natal planet falling in your 12th house). It is a great placement in synastry, of course depending on other aspects to the degree. What do you think? You need some fire. Birthday Report Package Deluxe Transit Report 1 Year Get A Natal Chart ReportProgressed Chart Report Deluxe Asteroids Report Get A Solar Return Report Get A Lunar Return Report Child Natal Report 1 Year Transit Report Outer Planets, Find Your Soulmate Saturn Transit the 12th House Using Astrology To Get What You Want, Predicting Violence In Relationship: Mars in Synastry. I always wonder whether he has feelings for me or not. As if it was not enough he has moon conjunct pluto in the 5th and Venus square Pluto and Venus trine Saturn. No WONDER I cant get it on for long with my Gemini partners . It never went fully public (as in, while everyone knew we were together, we never met our friends or family). You got bit BAD by the oh-so charismatic, elusive 12th Houser! In a way you don't care for.Look at your Sun & Saturn since that represents the father as well, with the way you feel look for afflictions. and NO MORE 12TH HOUSE PARTNERS FOR ME!! Your not crazy 12th house connections can stick to your bones. I know exactly what you mean and boy is it hard to wrap your head around 12th house connections, there are other worldly and they leave a deep impression that is hard to shake off. Im not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. Venus, in the 8th house in synastry, reveals a bitter relationship between partners. The house person will feel good with the Venus person and they will share a psychic connection that is quite powerful. With the Unaspected Venus, the sensibilities would be similar to Oscar and Felix in the Odd Couple. Still, whenever I think about doing something new in my life, with anyone else I speak with confidence and gusto. Everything has a timing. However, I am sorry for your pain, and I guess the upside is you don't need to be deceived anymore the truth is out. People who are willing to fully trust can let themselves loose in the 12th house if you show hesitation than it can make a big difference. However I have to say until now he has been writing twice a year sending me wishes bday and Xmas. This person also has natal Neptune in their 7th house and MY Neptune falls in their 7th house. It's true that when someone touches our soul in deep connection, they could teach us a lesson. If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. I think anyway 12th house is involved. In re: to the 12th House attractions, not surprisingly, I always attract Gemini natives mostly Lunar Geminis, or those with Gemini strongly paced in their chart; i.e., Mercury, Venus or Mars. But I always wonder if he feels the same because the 12th house is illusive, So many sites / people say that it is only the house person that will be affected / obsessed. These are unconscious impulses as well as the forbidden desires at least tried to suppress. Let me you move along. We have our moons in each others first houses which for my cancer stellium does a lot, and he has mars and venus in my 7th house. I, like YOU much prefer the beneficial planets:), I have someone venus conjunct my pluto in my 12th house . We have other aspects in synastry that are more positive, but the Mars issues come up a lot. Ill blink and its 1am. His Moon is in my 12th House, and my Venus is in HIS 12th House, thus I felt captured by him. The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. I feel I just love him unconditionally no matter what, I dream of him a lot, I have fantasies too but I keep this all to myself, a secret. In a synastry chart, this is indicative of strong affection and attraction. I only noticed it after my 12th-Houser came into my life and affected me deeply that is when my own natal Gemini placement came out in me full and strong. I dream of him a lot. I am the 12th house person. I have found myself on a couple of occasions asking, "Why in the world did I just tell him that?" When we met I felt like I had seen him before..we started talking online then decided to meet. If he is also your 12th Houser, please know that anything with him will be brief, for the most part, or there will be a series of back-and-forth connections with intervals of his ghosting you for long periods. Tabitha has Venus in 12th House Pisces. The 12th house has a reputation for being connected with the hidden and unseen realms that operate behind the scenes in our lives. More so after 15 years. I find myself questioning him all the time, whether or not I believe him or believe what he says. When we are together its like time is nothing. Where you see Venus, you can expect things to have an easy flow. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. I resonate with the guy you wrote about in your article. With your partner's Venus in your 12th house, you are drawn to and captivated by your significant other. Where their intention was not to help but to hurt. Juno in twelfth house can be a challenging placement. It could be due to different things.. like the planet person is insecure/shy/doesn't wanna show their love in an open way, or just that the house person doesn't "get" the planet person's way of loving. Told him, but am sure he did not get it, but Im sure it made for interesting playback. Ive cut our contact channels. My Moon quincunx his Moon. That said, I do know something about this. DUBLIGATO all OVAH the place, lol!!! Someone I love very deeply has his Venus and Sun and Jupiter and Mercury in my 12th house (actually, his Venus is tightly conjunct my ascendant and as I ignore his time of birth, it can fall also in my 1st house). Every synastry aspect Ive read into says that he should have felt more for me and I just dont know if that could be possible. He could not and cannot change . We were both unhappily married, I was her manager at work, she was head over heels for me immediately, I didn't even know she liked me for months. what a selfish!so far i have involved in guys where my venus lied in their twelve house, it was love but felt like hidden agenda, holly crap! Hi, Feeling. But how can I be sure.. its the 12th house.. Hi everyone (waving)!! Just not every second. he still talks with a kind voice which i hate of being him a hypocrite.what does the whole thing means? Venus trine Pluto, sun and Saturn trine. I don't know. His venus in your 12th, according to what I know, probably means that you're attracted because he brings out hidden parts of you. I cared abt him so much but I read that the mars person is the antagonist. which is terribly disturbing for anyone who doesnt want to face things. Lol and last night I noticed his Saturn/Pluto conjunct opposes my moon too. This house holds many lifetimes of memories. Its surprising how much love I have for him but it all seems so complicated in his head/heart that I choose not to act on my feelings and just let time do its job. And if they are thus planted in your 12th House, soon the fun begins with you feeling like you were run over by a truck or a fast-moving train. I can feel his worries and I always know what to say. This could be the unconditional kind of love people look for, its about whether or not you can handle it. He have deep psychic connection upon me, where he called me at a right time. Some would be uncomfortable with someone seeping into their dreams or communicating with them in the ethereal realm. I'm currently talking to someone where my Moon, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter fall into their 12th house. Venus the Goddess of love represents our love nature, our desires, our desire for the good things in life, our style, the way we act to attract, what we attract along with what we value and what we have or want. It's the planet of harmony, after all, and it brings harmony and luck to its house in your natal chart. Problem is that I feel like I know his soul. Lol. You will also find you share many of the same values, interests, and likes. I have also experienced it as not wanting anyone to know about the relationship or not knowing where you stand. My Neptune is in my 10th house in Scorpio and since I guess I'm what they would call a "Pluto person" since I have so many (5) planets in my 8th house, maybe that would mean something? So, it's painful when such love is not returned, like part of me is out there without a chance of getting it back.Lilly, Oh my.what a 12th house story:) this house leaves a deep imprint and we are often left with longings for what could have been. Will this ever end!?!?? Also VenusianMoon, the outside person (your boyfriend?) I couldn't forget him until now. This is because the two individuals want the same type of love relationship--they give and receive love in the same manner. My Sun, Venus and MErcury are in Aries and fall into his 12th, my moon in Sagittarius falls int his 7th and 8th and his moon in Scorpio into my 5th and his jupiter into my 1st. But what made it all so compelling, is that I REMEMBERED HIM FROM TWO PAST LIVES when we were mates!! I also was getting crazy muscle twitches. Venus in 10th House synastry relationships are formed in the field of business and professional life. His mars is in my 12th house. The sign over the 12th house also is a big signifier. I think that aspect makes you see what you want to see in the other person, but not what is actually there. Sadly to say those attractions/connections do NOT work out well and the relationships are of short duration, for the most part. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. Infatuation can't run this deep. I am an independent person and this is killing me emotionally, physically and psychologically! Such a mystical house - offers so much yet sometime so little. Mars in 12th house plus all the unease Im feeling is scary and terrifying. Any help would be greatly appreciated.p.s., any planet people willing to share their experience with their planets in someone's 12th would also be appreciated, As far as who feels what.. it would make sense they both would feel it since one persons planet is being housed ( in a environment) therefore the planet is being influenced also by the house person in their approach and the others is bringing the energy influence. I really like the Leo energy. Sent 5 times a week. It might be like having an itch you cant scratch. Here is a formula: Unless a guy acknowledges his feelings for you within a month, maybe 2 months (or 10+ dates) of serious dating openly, plainly, simply, without subtext, without mindgames or alternate plan Bs in his head,drop him. I have to admit that I, with my usual 3/Sag and 3/Leo stelliums went after HIM because I was so sure he was my soul mate. Relationships that take place here( 2 or more planets in this house) offer a great deal of healing, self undoing, and even unconditional love but it's not easy to navigate. He seemed very interested at first but the moment he felt I was getting attached he used the I am not looking for a relationship card. Its difficultto tell whats going on here. It could be a not-so-good thing if you feel vulnerable or exposed or even if you just get irritated from him. I have known that this house related to karmic connection. Look for hard aspects from his venus to your planets. The water faucet with no shut off valve, lol. We started off some kind of bizar friendship in where I felt like a teacher towards a child, I always pulling, he always coming towards me, and then everytime when he came, he ran away, literally, like he got burned or something. hes not so emotional with words but he is in action. I am fascinated by them, and the love I feel is otherworldly. Those this mean that he's thinking about me a lot too? I have neptune (Sagitarius) in my 7th house with Gemini rising. It's probably love bordering on obsession. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. But as his Sun is caught up in my 12th House, he now and then tries to make an appearance. The Ascendant person feels an unconditional love when the other one is around. Right up to this year I have still been battling my feelings in re: to the guy I was totally swept away by. With the negative aspect, the "Plutonian" personality can show jealousy and possessive tendencies toward the "Venusian" one, trying . Neptune can be downright painful, intentionally or not, he's the master illusionist and we can easily get tripped up in fantasy that is not really real at all. Hes very affectionate and cuddly. As he has moved on, you must do also. The moon represents our instincts, our moods, our feelings and emotional responses along with how we nurture, feel nurtured, the wo North and South node connections in synastry are very powerful and often fated. All we can do is hope for something good in the future! Elsa tried to warn me, but I couldnt hear. My north node in Cancer in the 12th conjuncts his venus and mercury. The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. Except when one of us is going through any kind of emotional crisis, then we're pretty physically demonstrative. It proves that Venus is created for sharing purity, love, and spirituality in the world, when in a good state. It can point to an affair or clandestine encounter. was it really necessary to get hurt in a same manner once again after 7 years? The relationship functions mostly on an unconscious level and there is often much misunderstood or misinterpreted if you arent very clear in your speaking with each other. But really what you also might be feeling is the Pluto Square Sun as well, that is another energy in itself that draws two people like Moth to flame:) the 12th house has roots in the past and most certainly is Karmic so perhaps that explains why it can go either way. didnt dream of them either. Obsessive, perhaps a bit and with your planets in the 8th I am sure it's not one way:). In this case, the partner will have different tastes. I then felt like the reason why it felt strange to me seemed to be that I was picking up his symptoms rather than experiencing illness myself (there was also "a fog" kind of feel to it too.) The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. As you said, these people were my ideal. I've never felt such a connection before, the passion too. The planet Venus takes its name from the Roman goddess of love, lust, beauty and fertility. Just a added general observation for everyone. i did not have any dreams of them. The only thing is boundaries, extremely psychic and and very empathetic which makes it very hard to set boundaries with a double whammy especially involving Neptune or the 12th house. and my northnode conjuct on his jupiter and saturn on my 2nd house. First of all i think in this case venus is in the 1st house. I feel lost a lot of the time, but feel even more lost and dead inside whenever I walk away from him, but I never stay gone for too long, even though I claim I will never come back. Its like that alcoholics anonymous quote of acceptance of who you are thats why its not good for people to judge other people because they are not and never understand how to live in their shoes. To get this straight, the "he" you're speaking of is the 12th house person? I would be very interested as always in hearing about any findings or further experience or information you can conjur up! Im stuck. I recent discover my crush has his Mars in my 12th conjunct my Ascendant. It is sometimes necessary to give people the spacevthey need, even if it hurts. Mars in the 3rd house overlay: This position for Mars in synastry, much like the 1st house position, can be very stimulating in either a positive or negative way.On the one hand, this position can stimulate a lot of invigorating conversation between the two, and the house person can appreciate how vocal and confident the Mars person is in their speech. His acts of ghosting you and shutting you down via social media makes me think that he might also be a tad sociopathic thats a common trait. I never even considered he couldve liked me because everyone liked him and every time I think he tried to tell me I shut him down cause I didnt want to be one of his conquests. Okay, so you're saying (as the Venus person in other people's 12th house in the past) that Aqua Venus people will make their affections quite obvious to the 12th house person? Im also worried he is using me on many levels and though his words and actions say otherwise, I feel that this is at least partially true. Can he just not see it because of this placement? I used to dream about them a lot. Tell me as the Venus person how do u feel? You might also note that he has Venus/Gemini very problematic, IMO! This happens for me with my Neptune in the 1st house I can take in people's feelings, illness or a array of different things that pass through me temporarily. Posts: 1873From: GeorgiaRegistered: May 2009. there are two people who have venus in my 12th i just adore. For example, you may not be a needy person, but you find yourself being very needy or vulnerable around the house person.

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